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Hi yall sorry I haven't posted in a while, I just had a miscarriage, and it's been really hard, this was my first child and I signed up for all these mom's sites, and babys trainings and I keep getting the e-mails and wondering why I wasn't allowed to keep my Serifena, that is what I named her(cuz if you remember your biology we all start out female). And I caught my husband looking at other women online on one of those sites. It just about crushed me yall, I asked him when we got together to not do that anymore, and he agreed, now I catch him in the act, and it is so upsetting, I can't trust him, and this coming so soon after the miscarriage, I just would love to strangle the life out of him. he is very defensive about it asking me why it's such a big deal, w/e I am tired night

Sarah,
my heart aches for you. A misscarriage is one of the most private, and devistating, of all. Its that wierd place, where, you are grieving, your hormones are whacked, and 1/2 the people you know dont even know whats happening with you.

I dont know what to tell you about your husband. You have to decide whats o.k. with you and what isnt and make your choices from there.

Hang in there. I wish you peace and a full nights sleep.
Tina S.