My name is Vanessa, a mother of 2, 17 and 18 year old and 45 years, married for 19 years!! 1 of 14 siblings and very family oriented!! Born in Cape Town, South Africa came here when I was 12, been an America Citizen for 33 years. Big Consumer afficate and in the process of getting my own Non-Profit Corporation. Writing a book on the “coloreds” in South Africa, which I am. I do fundraisers at least 6 times a year for the poor.