Hello Mommies
I wanted to know if anyone had any ideas so that my boyfriend and can spice up our love life. Things have changed drasticly since our son arrived and I have no idea how to bring back that fire. Any ideas on what I could do, we nornally have a date night but thats always dinner and a movie, I think we are both getting bored. Help!!!!!!
lingerie!
Do something physical like bowling or indoor rock climbing or something like that. Studies show that when you get physical or active with your mate it makes the sex better.
I would definitely suggest changing up your date night. Do something different. Go dancing, or just for a drive. Find something that you both would like to do. This may be a little bit personal but have sex in odd places, like in the car on the side of the road or even the garage. Just the thought of getting caught is a lil nerve racking and exciting. And in the car laugh about trying to get into "position" Lol. Have fun with it. If it is possible get a weekend away from the baby. And go somewhere together that you used to go before you had a baby. Try and live life not as parents but as a couple again. i know from experience that it is not easy to do but try you hardest. My boyfriend and I learned that if we do not have our alone "couple time" our relationship suffers. I hope this helps!!
I agree with the others, but also try the book "Fireproof" or books about communication.
Best of luck.
I know that after having kids it seems like we forget what we did before they came along. Ask you boyfriend what he wants to do. Talk about fantasies that you both have. The more open your lines of communication are the better your sex life will be. Look online at your city or surrounding areas and see what is going on - festivals, concerts, fairs... something different that will bring you together as a couple or even as a family. After a fun day out as a family its nice to come home, put the kids to sleep and watch a movie at home (even a dirty one - hee hee). or have sex in the kitchen, bathroom, etc. Switch up the normal routine so that it always feels nice and fresh!
Honeymoon's are very sexy.