My 3 1/2 year old son is going to be a ringbearer in a wedding this weekend. As it gets closer I am getting a little more nervous about how well he will participate. The bride is very understanding and knows he may or may not 'perform' but I am looking for any tips, bribes, suggestions, hints for ways to make it go as smoothly as possible. How did you get them down the aisle? What if he won't wear the suit?