I am going to a lawyer to file. but I have to sell things to pay for a divorce and find a place.
I put the peanut butter in the pantry but he was furious over it being in the wrong spot. So I left it on the counter the drawer and the table .He was furious. So I left the peanut butter on the stove. Nothing was cooking. I had cooked something
twenty minutes before. Because I don’t know where to put it. He is screaming so loud the entire neighborhood is looking at me while sit outside. While he screams in the trailer by himself with his peanut butter in the freezer. it’s melted it’s ruined. He’s screaming about it being half gone. Which I definitely didn’t do I don’t really like jif peanut butter. My husband can eat jars of it . He puts it on everything.
Still not a parenting question.
You know it’s not normal.
Why would the neighbors be looking at you if he’s doing the screaming?
Start disassociating with his tantrums.
They have nothing to do with you.
Talk to a womens shelter.
They can help get you legal advice.
You ought to find a legal aid organization in your city. We have Legal Aid of Greater Miami here, for example. You can get pro bono attorneys to assist you with your divorce for free if you’re indigent, which seems to be the case. Please don’t put off getting away from this ticking time bomb just because you don’t have money right now. You can also get yourself into free housing (shelter for domestic abuse victims). Get it done.
As @B_11 noted - no it’s not normal. It’s not normal for anyone to have a meltdown over peanut butter. I am more curious how the peanut butter got from the stove, to the freezer, but yet melted….is it magic peanut butter?